eHarmony.com Real Users Reviews

Im Loving it babby

OK How's this for the impersonal nature of a dating site. I am straight, and today, I was matched with a Vickie, kindergarten teacher, who is looking for a "he" from her profile.

Found a lot of good matches on their black dating section http://www.eharmony.com/black-dating
Getting serious with someone I met so going to close my profile.

An open letter to eHarmony

Dear eHarmony,

I just wanted to let you know that I am done. When I started my membership I received at least 10-20 matches per week, a lot of whom were fat and/or ugly and/or stupid and/or too old for me. Of the ones that didn't fit those categories, most of them never responded to communication. Evidently you have no way of filtering out which guys actually want to communicate with a female, because very few actually initiate contact or answer back.
In addition, I find it repugnant that you wallpaper your site with ads. I am paying for your service. To use the example of smart phone apps, when an individual pays for an app, typically the ads are deleted. It would show respect for your customers to follow that same protocol on your matching site and forego the ads for paying members. I also am repulsed by the excess articles about "How to win a great male/female and share love forever." I am an intelligent, attractive person and can find that information (or make it up) on my own. I don't need or want it from you, when what I am actually looking for is names and faces.
Speaking of names and faces, I have received about five matches from you in the last ten days, a couple of which were older than my indicated preference. I cannot believe that suddenly all younger men I might be matched with disappeared from eHarmony. This lack of matches is one more reason I am writing to you.
Having said that, I want to cancel my membership. This is a breakup email, but don't worry, I have found a site that far surpasses, outshines and outperforms yours. www.chemistry.com seems to provide more relevant matches who are smarter, closer to my age and more willing to communicate than the ones from yours. I highly recommend it to the person reading this email, if you are frustrated with eH, check it out. They'll give you FULL access for seven days, free. It actually seems to accomplish the good idea that eHarmony is based on but fails miserably at accomplishing.

Cheers to you, whoever you are. Please cancel my subscription to this frustrating website.

Thanks,

Maria

as u know

I decided to test the EH waters for about 3 months. It's approaching my final week and I have not found any one I feel is worthy of dating. Most of the guys are average looking and most of them over the age of 38 are overweight and frumpy. Most of my matches were archived or closed. Despite what people say, looks DOES matter. It's the front door to the house people! I was trying not to be shallow and give a couple a shot. So I answered their guided communication questions. But nothing panned out. If you're young and attractive, this site may not be for you.

I must admit eHarmony is really good. I found a woman I was really interested in and the match was damn good. While good times were very fun adventureous and on going, progression of which way the relationship was going was not. So a split happened. Anyway, eHarmony was the best meetings I have had on any date site. Give it a go and keep going as their are alot of people to meet.

eHarmony is a place where I can always meet new people, talk in chats and forums. I upload new and new photos, view other profiles and flirt with pretty girls. It's better that twitters I think.

eHarmony is a kind of old beloved sites. It has millions of members and becomes better each year. I like this site because there is no adult dating or something like this. It is created only for serious people who want to meet their love online.